It may surprise you to learn that nearly 50% of the population has tried some BDSM (for the uninitiated, BDSM stands for Bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism), so if your partner one day out of nowhere starts tying you to the bedposts, then they may well have been converted to the fetish by something they saw on the Internet. What your partner is watching online could easily end up making its way into your bedroom, so be prepared. This is why it’s always relevant to monitor how popular trending adult kinks are evolving over time, and it’s why we’ve decided to take a quick look at the top 10 kinks which are currently trending in 2022.
According to a recent survey, it turns out that men and women both have a different list of favorite kinks, that probably doesn’t surprise you. So let’s start with the women’s list, in no particular order:- role play, dressing up, filming themselves having sex, blindfolds, tying up, food play, spanking, domination, body piercings and sex outdoors. Next let’s compare the men’s list and look for overlaps:- role play, bondage, threesomes, blindfolds, handjob porn, rubber/leather, food play, filming themselves having sex, body piercings and domination. As you can see both have a fair bit in common, which is quite fortunate, though often the men and women will have a different preference as to how each kink should be carried out. The survey found that more men than women admitted to having a kinky side, but there wasn’t much difference overall. Reading those two lists may give you an idea of what you’ll have to prepare for in your bedroom some time soon, or perhaps what you yourself can carefully try to introduce into your relationship.
Of course, just because people are fantasizing about a specific favorite kink on the Internet, doesn’t necessarily mean that they definitely want it to become a reality. Some things are better left as fantasies, especially harmful actions and ones which are non-consensual. Kinks are about the three Cs, which are:- consent, communication and compromise. Ideally the consent should be enthusiastic, or not far below that, in order for things to proceed.
It is generally good to spice things up in a relationship, so think of what you’d like to try and speak to your partner about it, hopefully all goes well and you will both have an exhilarating time, good luck.